The important thing in a relationship

Many things that must be considered in any relationship. But there are some things that really should be done, such as honesty, trust, openness, understanding, caring and tolerance. Without one of them a relationship will not work in harmony.

Let's say a relationship without honesty. Are you going to survive with a relationship filled with lies, be it employment, business, friendship or romance. Honesty is the first thing that must exist in any relationship, without it the relationship will not last long.

 

The second thing is trust. A relationship without trust is not a relationship. Without trust a relationship will not be built, we need others to help our work, give advice, share responsibility and others. If there is no sense of trust, then we will be alone.

 

The third is the openness. You do not want in a relationship you build with anyone, especially friendships, family, and love  without openness. Openness combined with honesty can create sense of trust. With openness we can see many things that we did not know before.

 

Understanding is the next important thing in a relationship. Without understanding will not create a harmonious relationship, because much people want their own interests that come first, then comes the selfish  that will destroy the relationship itself in the end.

 

Next is care. No one in this world who do not want the attention from others. Even the most selfish people who do not care about other people would want the attention of people nearby. From the attention we give to others can help her in through all the difficulties that were encountered. The attitude that we give attention also can make others believe in us.

 

Tolerance, completing all the things that must exist in building a relationship. If you already have honesty, trust, openness, understanding and attention, the last thing that should have a sense of tolerance. There are times when a person being less well in a relationship for some reason, that is where the function of a tolerance. But there are certain limits to the tolerance. Pain tolerance is limited by logic, an acceptable reason to create the logic of tolerance but the reasons are invented to create distrust.

So in any relationship that meets the above criteria will be walking in harmony and for a long time. All this will not happen instantly but it must be built bit by bit. Starting from the slightest honesty, sense of trust, openness, understanding, caring and tolerance. Life would be wonderful if all goes harmonious relationship.